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You didn't want that job.

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Different.

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I need stability.

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I have money.

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And if you wanted to do anything, I'd
back you.

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You don't even know me.

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I don't think that's true.

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You forgot to vote.

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No, I just didn't vote.

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Well, if everyone thought that way, we
could have lost.

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What do you mean by we?

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Was I meant to give you a bullet point
list of all my political beliefs?

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I feel like I don't even know you. Was I
supposed to change my personality?

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Become a new human being just to make
you more comfortable in your own

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insecurities?

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Emily, if you want to go, you can go,
but do it on your own. You tell me to

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off.

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In my beginning is my end.

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In succession, houses rise and fall,
crumble, are

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extended, are removed, destroyed,
restored, or in their

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place is an open field or a factory or a
bypass, old stone to new building,

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old timber to new fires, old fires to
ashes.

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ashes to the earth.

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As we go from this place, may we carry
with us our own warm memories of Morgan.

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I well remember many years ago, my dear
brother, very patiently,

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Trying to teach me leg spin bowling with
a tennis ball in our backyard cricket

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game.

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Never really got the hang of that.

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May we live our lives inspired by
Morgan's example.

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His kindness.

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His strength.

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Let us pray.

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Almighty God, in our sorrow, we turn to
you for comfort.

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And for healing.

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We thank you for the great gift of
Morgan's life.

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And for the many ways he's touched our
lives.

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This is the hope and light that Morgan
shared with us every day.

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The hope and the light within us all.

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We're now going to hear from Ryan,
Morgan and Lorna's grandson, who will

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with us his own memories of Morgan.

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Ryan?

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Thank you, Ian.

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Hi, thanks for coming.

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I don't know.

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Pop never liked being in here, in the
church.

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That's not a secret. After Mum died, he
always...

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He said that he would only come here for
weddings and funerals.

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So I guess he's kind of keeping that
pledge. I hope this is okay with him.

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Nan and I were there when he passed.

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It was something that happened very
quickly.

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Morgan? Darling, you all right?

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Get the aspirin. Get the aspirin.

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What is it, darling?

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Oh, my God, he's in pain. Get me the
aspirin.

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Here, darling.

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Morgan,

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what's wrong?

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And it was weirdly... It was weirdly
peaceful.

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He just took one long breath and looked
at Nan and said, I can see your light.

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Not the light.

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Hers.

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And then he started smiling like he knew
something.

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And that was it.

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So many memories have flooded back from
the last couple of days.

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Strange memories of my mum.

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I remember when I was younger, she used
to sit with me and sing me to sleep.

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It wasn't always like that.

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It was really tough for Nan and Pop
sometimes.

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I think we all just dealt with that a
bit differently.

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Lately I'm beginning to wonder if maybe
pop handled it better than the rest of

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us.

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It was always open to how people could
be more hopeful.

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And I thought I was like that too until
recently. I thought, maybe I'm not.

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Maybe I'm not.

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I remember once I told him about
something I'd read, that time is not a

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a loop, and that each moment we're in is
a fixed point that we travel through

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many times, and that's why we feel deja
vu or that we've been there before or

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that we have certain connections to
certain people, even if we mess it up

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sometimes.

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Especially today, I hope it's true.

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Here's a poem that Pop loved from T .F.
Eliot.

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In my beginning is my end.

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In succession houses rise and fall,
crumble, are

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extended, are removed, destroyed.

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Thanks for coming.

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Thanks for organising everything.

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You too. Are you sure? You too. Give me
two seconds.

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Excuse me.

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Hey.

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So sorry for your loss.

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Thanks for coming.

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Another beautiful speech.

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That was a bit random, but...

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Ryan, I should, um... Sorry, I have
to...

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Yeah.

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I... Be coming to the house later?

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Could you?

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Asking you to stay We know

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these whispers won't go away

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Do I?

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Can I get you anything?

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mind if I sit?

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Oh, yes, please. Goodness.

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They're either all over me. They're
trying to avoid me.

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Thank you for coming.

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I'm so sorry.

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Did you kill him?

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I'm sorry. That's all funny.

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It's just so sad.

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It would have been a lot.

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or if I hadn't spent the last 50 years
with him.

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Oh, I will miss him.

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But we didn't miss anything.

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Oh, we had a long time.

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Did he say that before he died, that he
could see your light?

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Yes, he did.

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That's beautiful.

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Did you really get married after eight
dates?

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Yeah, we did.

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How did you know that

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he was the right person for you?

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I didn't know.

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I mean, we were just silly kids.

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It's wild.

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It's a bit wild, isn't it?

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Oh, I don't know. We just had this
feeling.

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Yeah.

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I don't think it was any one thing.

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It's just that he calmed me.

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And I challenged him.

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And we just sort of...

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Grew up together.

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And then we got old.

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And we never, ever tried to change each
other.

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Even in the hard time.

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There was a very hard time.

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Of course, there were many things we did
not agree on.

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But we did agree on the things that
really matter, and I really think that

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is what counts.

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Oh, I don't know. We might have missed
out on some things, but I don't think we

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did. I don't think you did either. I
don't think so. No, I don't think so.

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We had it all.

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Thanks very much.

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Karen, thank you.

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Ian, really appreciate it.

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You had a fight.

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He was very upset.

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Yeah, well, it was pretty bad.

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to you.

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I think you should know that.

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Excuse me.

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Did he get off okay?

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He did.

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Good.

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I'll call and organize their time next
week to pick up the ashes.

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Good.

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They tried to upsell us on the urn.

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Of course they did.

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Well, I'm going to make a cup of tea.

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I'll get it.

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You sit.

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I'll help.

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What a day, huh?

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What a day.

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Thanks for telling me.

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think you'd want to hear from me.

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Why? Because I got pissed and acted like
an asshole and I floated all my

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insecurities on you. No, I was the
asshole.

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You were right.

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It's something I need to work on.

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I think it's okay that we don't agree on
everything.

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That's not the point.

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The point is there is something real
here between us.

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And that's the most important thing.

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I'm sorry.

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I'm sorry too.

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I missed you.

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for the next one.

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Are you calling this a date?

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I've been on way worse.

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Do you want

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to speak this to Laura?

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Sure.

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All right, thanks for coming.

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Thank you.

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That was a beautiful speech.

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I'm glad you liked it.

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I painted this for you.

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You work really hard so that people
don't feel lonely in your presence.

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That must be exhausting.

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So I wanted you to have this, so that
you know that I see you.

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And that you are not alone.

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Not ever.

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Okay?

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Okay.

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Excuse me.